it's been a really busy week for me~
Everyday were so packed with activities but i'm loving it! :D

Ytd was pasta club sport's day!
Sec sch clique VS Pasta club in exchange got bball knowledge!
HAHA!
I hope everyone enjoy themselves. :D


There's alot of birthdays happening...
alot of gathering coming up...
alot of chance to spend my hard-earn/save money in every way that i can't rmb.
Hohoho!
HURRAY!

I'm so busy that i totally neglect bastard buddy.
AAarrr! Guilty-charge! KILL ME!
I wanna meet up soon! We can pour everything out!
bla bla bla...~



Well...though i was quite busy with gatherings, still manage to catch up with friends and update abt each other.

But there's this 1 close friend's situation, kinda pity her.
After hearing her story, my conclusion is that...she's being accused for nth, i know she seriously freaking bloodly hates it.
I can understand cos we're the same type.
We HATE being accuse in every way.

To girls, i think we're more familiar with bitching-situation.
Miss A can bitch about Miss B...and Miss B go ard thinking all girls are like Miss A and had her super gianticly huge and transparent guards on 24/7.
So the routine goes on.
And my friend is somehow caught in this situation...

She's just sitting there and be herself, and Miss B think she's fake just becos other girl faked her.
Vomit blood sia.

"Only time can tell", i told her.
"Sooner or later Miss B will know u're not faking! Bear with it for a while...she's ur friend".
The moment i said it, i knew how she's gonna counter me.
Miss B is stubborn, very stubborn, according to reliable source...and things got worse after few days of interactions.
Good intentions are turn into fake-ness.
Well...Well...nth much she can do anyway.

But please. Before you condamn others...look at yourself.
Now that u're doing this,
what's the difference between u and those girls???

Girls need to have guards on. That's for sure. Cos we need protection.
But...are you being blinded by ur guards?
Ppl, esp CLOSE ONES, are suffering badly cos of you & ur self-proclaim righteous mindset.

You don't like him/her to do this...
You don't like him/her to do that...
You don't, you don't, you don't....
What about his/her feeling?
What he/she REALLY like? Love?
What about his/her wants...needs?
Why must you make him/her choose?
Maybe i'm not in ur situation, i won't/don't understand..
but i don't see any good forcing ur mindset on others.



Don't abuse your authority just because you have authority.




After listening to her,
The only thing i though to myself is...
Am i like her?
Am i blinded by my guards too?
I don't feel any wrong abt my mindset, I can't see for myself...too.
Maybe i'm too native. I don't understand it.
But hope when ppl advice me, i'm not SO stubborn that i make ppl suffer.

What a stupidly complicated situation girls have.
This is pure maddness that WILL make ppl go mad.


Girls are complicated...not even girls can understand girls, u know?